Golf Mind Play: Playing your Own Game

Do you find less than perfect conditions discouraging?An accomplished player maintains a positive attitude
Players tend to judge their performance by theirby seeing challenges as a way to improve her game.
most recent score, and spend a lot of time after aThe accomplished player also enjoys competing
round obsessing on an extra stroke from landing in aagainst others, and finds that healthy competition can
divot, or by the wind affecting their lie on a green.boost motivation and goal setting. Although player
By focusing on what could have been if thecompetition is a regular and enjoyable part of golf, it
conditions were perfect, players end up dwelling onis important to remain performance oriented and to
the bogeys, rather than cherishing the birdies. A halffocus on your own game rather than thinking about
empty glass rather than half full! Circumstances willkeeping up with or falling behind your opponent.
vary each time you play, weather and fairwayAlthough you are playing against an opponent, it is
conditions fluctuate even on the most meticulouslyadvantageous to keep in mind that you are really
maintained courses. It is how you perceive andcompeting against the golf course. Your main focus
manage these challenges that make you a bettershould be to improve your personal score and not to
player. Getting out of a tough position just once is allbeat your playing partner. Placing too much emphasis
it takes to fuel your confidence and add to your levelon your playing partner's performance will only
of experience. Each time you hit the ball from adistract you from your own goals and will cause you
challenging lie, you have learned something aboutto play differently than you normally would to try to
your technique whether you hit a good shot or badmatch or surpass their skill level.
one. No matter what the result of your shot, youTips
become more skilled in assessing what to do the1. See challenges on the golf course as an
next time you are in that situation. If you view aopportunity to improve your game.
challenging situation as a productive experience, you2. Focus on playing your own game, not how well
will not only avoid disappointment, you will improveyour opponent is doing. You are playing against the
your judgment and technical skills.course, and your goal should be to improve your own
Are you using competition to your advantage?game, not to measure yourself against others.