The Golf Swing Hit (Ouch) Vs. The Golf Swing Stroke

When you first begin to play golf this is of theyou'll out hit me by a long ways."
mistakes you are likely to make.John and I then had a long conversation about the
You come to the course, you're relatively new to themental approach to the game of golf, and he
game of golf, and your first tendency is to putintroduced me to two words that I believe are the
everything you have in your tank into your golflifeblood to any good golfer: consistency and control.
swing.John had me associate the way I approached putting
That's the America way, right? You have to 'try'. Youto the way I would drive off the tee. "In many
have to put in a lot of effort. If you don't, then youways, they are the same. You easily maintain control
must not be taking yourself seriously as a golfer.of your body while putting. It should be the same off
Yeah, sure.the tee. Control and consistency. If you can't control
As you play a little more golf, it doesn't take you tooyour golf swing, how are you going to control where
long to figure out that this approach will kill your golfthe golf ball goes?"
game. I have firsthand knowledge of this, trust me.John was making a lot of sense. Early on as a golfer,
I had a friend, John, who many years ago introducedI was completely out of control and hoping for the
me to the game of golf. John wasn't a very big guybest. It was only when I downsized my approach
compared to me, but he could always out drive meand started 'stroking' the golf ball that I began to see
(at first). And, he seemed to do it effortlessly. Ibetter results.
hated him.With every golf swing you take strive to maintain
One day early on, I asked him how he couldthat control and stroke the golf ball wherever you
consistently out hit me.are on the course; leave the hitting to baseball
"You swing the golf club like it's a baseball bat. It'splayers and boxers. When you are able to do this
not. Don't hit the ball, stroke it. Think about theyour golf swing will give you the consistency to
difference. When you figure it out, with your size,become a better golfer.